HEALING FOR THE SOUL: WHAT IS YOUR WORTH

What's Your Worth 

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Women complain that men do them wrong, but is that really the case? Ask yourself, who is responsible for your life? Who controls your happiness? The answer is, You. You determine what goes on in your life , so why do you give men that much power. If a person does not treat you the way you want to be treated, you have two options, to accept it or reject it. The problem is that too many of us accept the mistreatment in hopes that the man will change. Well, why would he change. You don't require him to do anything differently because you constantly accept the mistreatment. Yeah, you get mad, curse him out, destroy his things, but run back to him like you owe him something. 

The question is what is your worth? How do you expect someone to treat you right, it you don't love yourself enough to demand proper treatment. At all times, you need to know your worth and settle for nothing less. It's like thinking you brought a name brand pocketbook and realized you got a knockoff. Now, all of us have been mistreatment at one time or another, but things didn't change until we demanded something different by changing our actions and our response to our offender. In some cases, our change of action caused our mates to treat us better, but in other cases we had to leave because they kept doing the same thing. All cases are different, but one thing remains the same. You have to love you and treat yourself right first. Know that you are more than enough and that you are the prize. You have to know your worth, treat yourself right, demand proper treatment and accept nothing less...You are worth it and your happiness depends on it.